I'm so sick of hearing grown men and women complain about child support. The simple thing for these people to do would be to: stay with the other parent until the children are no longer minors or DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN!!
I say this because I worked for the child support agency in Texas. You wouldn't believe the volume of calls and letters we received from deadbeats because they have to pay child support and/or that their arrears are so high. The reason most of theses assholes are on child support is because they ran when they were initially served and didn't appear in court to request DNA so they get default judgments against them. Some spent their young lives unemployed so when they do start to work later on, they're 10K+ in the hole. Some are intentionally unemployed (which is weird because it's against the law to not pay child support but not against the law to be unemployed) who live off men or women or other relatives. Some of these fools even hide paperwork from their significant others until it's too late to do anything about it. So now you have people who're 5+ years in arrears or are paying for kids who aren't theirs. I don't feel sorry for any of these sons of bitches.
There's nothing more pathetic than a grown man/woman whining about having to pay for the upkeep of their OWN damned kids. What's sickening is that these fools don't take responsibility for their own actions. The reason they're parents is because the father/mother told them they were on the pill; tricked them if you will. (Only parents 21 and under can use this excuse). This would be a valid argument if all heterosexuals were fathers/mothers. There are PLENTY of men/women in this country who're NOT parents. They're NOT parents by "THEIR" choice. They don't leave birth control up to the man/woman. I know that men/women don't believe that they're going to marry or have a future with every ma/woman they have sex with. So realizing this, why not protect yourself? Why not be honest with yourself and say, "I don't know how long I'm going to be with this person, so let me make sure that I don't bring another person into the world until I'm sure?" If that doesn't work. Remember the first thing the teachers say in sex ed. "There is a 50/50 chance that you'll be parents each and every time you have sex." SMMFH! Who's raising these muthafuckas?
There was an article in a paper here in Texas a few years ago. A woman had started an organization to keep women from "picking" fathers. "Picking" is when a woman who has had multiple partners picks the best among them to be her baby's father. Chances are this man is a working man who'll take care of the baby. In this case, the wife was upset that her husband was paying support for a baby that wasn't his. What this fool glossed over in her article, was that her husband got another woman pregnant while still married to her and he was hiding the support papers from her when he got them. She didn't know anything until the payments started coming out of his check. Years later, this lady's husband did a paternity test and found the baby wasn't his. So now, she's mad about all the money spent and is asking for a refund. ???????????? This lady needs to ask herself why she stayed with this asshole. That woman he cheated with wasn't the first and she wasn't the last. She should be asking her husband why he didn't come forward when he first got these papers. She's married to the worst sort of man; a liar, a cheat, and a coward. If anyone needs their ass kicked its hers for staying married to this jackass. All this could have been prevented if he'd just asked for a dna test.
There have been articles written recently where the author is requesting that the custodial parent provide an accounting of where the child support money is being spent. ??????? Ain't this some bullshit!!! First off, the custodial parent has to do more with less. Second, where the custodial parent was responsible for 50% of the kids everyday needs, now they're responsible for 100% because the non-custodial parent only sees the kids every other weekend or not at all. You want to know where the child support is going? Fuck you!!! But I'll tell you anyway where the child support is going. It's going to pay rent, food, electric, phone, car note, care insurance, gas, dental &vision insurance (they're not included in the child support order), daycare & after school (which is the equivalent of a house note which child support doesn't cover), clothes & shoes (they grow like weeds) and miscellaneous after school activities (sports and entertainment). I think all parties should prepare expense reports. That way the non-custodial parent can see what he gets a free-pass on and the custodial parent can see why he/she is going without.
I want everyone who don't want to pay child support to have a vasectomy or get their tubes tied. There. Problem solved.
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